Persistence, persistence, persistence. Try, fail, learn and keep trying. Talent and education only get you so far; you have to put effort into everything you do to cross the finish line.
Do you have an interesting hobby?
What’s the most interesting place you’ve been?
Some of the more remote areas of the world like the top of a “fourteener” in the Rockies or picnicking on a deserted Caribbean island. You begin to marvel at the simplicity and find a deep abiding peace that only comes during those rare times when the rest of the world is absent.